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*All of the names have been changed for safety reason

**Full name has been used under interviewee's request for not using any honorific 

Creativity in

Seeking Help

Considering that it will be even more dangerous for the victims when the perpetrator caught them calling the police by tracing their phones, Harmony House hopes the government could promote more about their services alongside their hotlines.

Novelty ideas have developed amid the pandemic in many countries for domestic violence victims to report on their perpetrators.

In France and the UK, with just a “magic word”, those at risk of domestic violence would be given a chance to talk in private, to see if they need any help from police or other services from domestic violence helpline. All they have to do is to say the code word to the pharmacists.

 

Inspired by the “Mask-19” initiative in France, a high school student in Poland has set up a fake cosmetic shop on Facebook, for victims to hide their distress signals by camouflaging as shopping online from their abusers who would constantly check their phones. This initiative has won an award from the European Union for tackling the consequences of Covid-19.

 

Salespeople from the online shop “Camomiles and Pansies", whose actual name in Polish will not be disclosed under the interviewee’s request to protect victims’ safety, are actually therapists. They disguise themselves and ask questions about their skin as a cover to ask about their family violence situation, for example, they will ask about which products are their skin sensitive to, if they have problems with redness and when do these problems occur. And when the person “places an order”, it is actually a code for authorities to visit their homes. 

 

“Use our mask and get rid of all the skin impurities that make your life difficult and stressful,” one of the product descriptions reads in Polish. 

 

In response to a Facebook messenger enquiry on April 9, 2020, a spokesperson of Camomiles and Pansies said: “We try to be very casual with our descriptions, but almost every sentence has a hidden meaning - if you know what we do, you will understand... We have to create a perfect balance between encouraging victims and being undercover.”

 

As of January, the Facebook page has helped 350 people, mostly young women and teenagers, who experienced various types of violence from their parents.

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Experts and social workers urge victims of domestic violence to pay attention to all the symptoms, and never tolerate any actions of the perpetrators. “Even just once is already way too many, there is zero-tolerance for their actions,” Harmony House advocated.

**Joe Li, the President and founder of Les Corner, mentioned that putting forward the problem earlier not only can reduce the harm done to the victims, but also might save the relationship and prevent breaking up.

 

“Although there are not many services in the society at this moment, please don‘t refuse to reach out just because of your identity as a sexual minority or your sexual orientation,” **Joe Li said. “There are people willing to get through this with you!” 

Help is Available 

If you’re experiencing domestic violence or concerned about someone you know, help is available from the following organisations and services. 

 

Association Concerning Sexual Violence Against Women - Rain Lily

2375 5322 

 

Caritas Family Crisis Support Centre

18288

 

Harmony House 

Women Hotline - 2522 0434

Man Hotline - 2295 1386

Children Hotline - 2751 8822

 

Hong Kong Federation of Women’s Centre
2386 6255

 

Hong Kong Social Welfare Department 

2343 2255

 

LGBTQ+ supporting programmes

BGCA Project Touch

2321 1103

 

Les Corner Empowerment Association 

5281 5201

 

Rainbow of Hong Kong

2769 1069

 

Tung Wah Group of Hospitals CEASE Crisis Centre 

18281 

 

Tung Wah Group of Hospitals Pride Line

2217 5959

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